Anxieties Blessings And Curses!

Anxiety Blessings And Curses?

A New Year is upon us and I hope those who suffer from anxiety and panic attacks are beginning to find a little more peace. I know how Holidays can increase those feelings and heighten the symptoms. Let's make 2015 a year to learn to calm our fears and feel our pleasures more.

So why do I consider anxiety to be a blessing and a curse?  It's because of the heightened sense of feelings we have. We feel very deeply for the good things and even for the bad. Our minds can turn in an instant from the thoughts of another panic attack to loving thoughts that could blanket the world.

Achieving this switch takes practice and time but no doubt it can be accomplished. When you are in the grips of anxiety and panic attacks it is hard to believe there is a way out but simply put it is a decision in your own mind to turn this mania into something good. This is where the blessing of anxiety can overcome the curse.

No matter if the feelings are good or bad they are magnified by our anxiety and if allowed enable us to prepare quicker for any situation. If we need to flee we are gone before you know it, if it is for something we believe in we give it all we have! Our minds can drive us to insanity with the fear and negative thoughts but when we are involved in something we are passionate about we give all of ourselves. Even times of going over board because we want to make a difference because we know what it feels like to be down.

Anxieties blessings and curses use us by making us take a closer look at ourselves and how we take care of ourselves. When an episodes begins tell yourself, Okay what am I about to learn from this...Either I am being threatened and need to flee or it is my over reaction to something going on in my life?  What is it that I need to take more time to learn and resolve to lessen these threats?

If it is your constant fear of your health it leads you to learn to take better care of your health. Once you allow the anxiety in and let it pass through and you have made your life healthier, your anxiety will subside but your strong convictions will remain. You remember what you have learned as not to repeat so you may move forward and have more confidence in yourself.

Do you have social anxiety? What can you learn from this form of anxiety? Most of all that you are not alone. Here is the curse of anxiety making you feel as though everyone is looking at just you. Stand in a crowd and imagine everyone around you thinking the same things you are thinking. They are thinking everyone is looking at them and judging them. Do they really care what you are wearing or what type person you are? Most of the time you are just a passing vision as they look around as everyone does and not a thought about you even crosses their mind. 

 Most people are just going about their normal routines or activities it is your mind who is drawing their attention to you not them. When you make a speech in front of the class does it really matter what they think? Yes, you hope they like what you have to say but their approval is not needed for you to feel good about yourself. Just knowing your preparation was good and you have completed what you needed to do and their opinion does not take away from that. No one can please everyone so you learn to worry less about everyone and begin to get selective on the opinions and people that matter. 

Anxiety's curse is the overwhelming flood of negative or scary thoughts coming at you all at once that you do not know what to do with. This curse can be good in some instances when there really is danger but most of the time it is a matter of learning to let the anxiety flow...This curse can be turned into a blessing by learning to control your minds' reaction and your bodys' reactions to these thoughts. By no means is this something you just up and learn to do...This takes time in getting to fully know yourself and changing how you react to your minds tricks.

A New Year with a new way of thinking about how Anxieties Blessings And Curses can make us a stronger and more passionate person. Learning to turn the negative into positive is an accomplishment no on can take from you. Take this year to truly learn yourself and give yourself the attention, nutrition, support and love it needs.

Only WE can Choose to support one another!

Sincerely,

Melinda Pearson

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Diet And Anxiety

It was not until I was years into my anxiety and panic attacks with bouts of depression that I learned just how important and how much Diet and Anxiety go together. Most of the time it is not until you get much older that you begin thinking about things like diet, exercise, health and our bodies and how everything effects us. We were always told to drink water water water. So how many of you at a young age really think about exactly what water does for your body?

Water transports nutrients, hormones and chemical messengers to vital organs in the body. If we don't keep our bodies well-hydrated they may react with signals such as anxiety which you would never think that is related to poor drinking habits.

Here are some interesting facts about water:
-75% or more of Americans are chronically dehydrated.
-37%  of Americans the thirst mechanism is so weak that it is often mistaken for hunger.
-Even MILD dehydration will slow down one's metabolism as much as 3%.
-One glass of water will shut down midnight hunger pangs for almost 100% of  the dieters studied in a University of Washington study.
-Lack of water is the #1 trigger of daytime fatigue.

The goal is to drink 8 glasses of water a day in order to replenish the deficit of fluids that reach all the way to the molecular level. Our cells then communicate this to our subconscious as an underlying subtle feeling of anxiety. In short water is key when considering Diet and Anxiety. Ample amounts of water ward off subtle feelings of anxiety, helping cure anxiety and is incredibly helpful in building stamina and warding off fatigue.

Diet is something we can immediately take control of to help improve our over all well- being while also building a positive mental attitude allowing us to feel as if  "I am in control of my body."

On average, most people have a high acidic diet which gives you a lower resistance to stress as well as a variety of serious health conditions. To be at the optimum balance there needs to be 80% alkaline in your diet. If your diet is to acidic your body will have difficulty eliminating toxins from the body, which leaves you with less of a buffer zone to stress.

High acidic foods are: Salt, sugar, proteins, nuts, grains, dairy products (except yogurt), refined or processed products and alcohol. Alkaline foods: fruits, vegetables and juices.

In order to obtain this optimum balance we need to focus on raw vegetable, fruits and small quantities of protein as we need for energy. A person needs  50 g of protein a day with a good diet. This breaks down into 7 ounces of animal protein (or a vegetarian equivalent) or 36 ounces of good yogurt. Should you have a physical occupation or you are very strenuous then you may need more than 50 g of protein a day. In order to eliminate anxiety the rest of your diet should be alkaline.

To help cure your anxiety, see below to find a more comprehensive list of alkaline foods that will help bring greater balance to your diet.

Diet and Anxiety are linked together no matter how you look at it or analyze it, We must learn to take care of our bodies if we want our bodies to take care of us.

Alkaline Foods:

Parsnips                                                         Orange
Rutabagas                                                      Grapes
Cauliflower                                                    Apricots
Mushrooms                                                    Blackberries
Green beans                                                   Peaches
Green peas                                                     Raspberries
White potatoes                                               Pears
Tomatoes                                                       Apples
Muskmelon                                                    Beans, dried
Cantaloupe                                                     Dried Figs
Limes                                                              Dried Dates
Strawberries                                                   Bananas
Pineapples                                                      Raisins
Prunes                                                            Avocados
Sweet Potatoes                                              Watermelons
Honey Dew Melons                                       Molasse
Beet Greens                                                   Celery
Chard Leaves                                                Watercress
Sauerkraut                                                      Lettuce
Green Limas                                                  Cucumbers
Radishes                                                        Cabbage
Broccoli                                                         Beets
Brussel Sprouts                                              Carrots
Green Soybeans                                             Raw Spinach

The more you take control over your diet and fluid intake, the more you will begin to regain you self control and confidence that you really can control how you and your body react to anxiety. Take the time to work out a diet tailored for you and make sure to include plenty of water.

Only WE can choose to Support one another,
Sincerely,
Melinda Pearson

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Anxious Intrusive Thoughts

In almost all cases of general anxiety, the driving factor fueling the sensations are anxious intrusive thoughts. There can be little chance for success over the root of anxiety without addressing these intrusive thoughts.

Most of us who suffer from anxiety and panic attacks often have to deal with the negative side-effects of unwanted thoughts that continually creep into our minds over concern for loved ones, concern over our own health or even fears that have no rational sense, but continue to linger in our minds.

Barry with the Panic Away system guides us though a two-step process, that is in part related to his ONE MOVE step in his program for getting rid of anxious intrusive thoughts. You must eliminate the negative thinking patterns by producing a shift in attitude along with specific visualization tools.

THE ATTITUDE SHIFT:
The distress we feel does not come from the intrusive thoughts we have, but how we respond to those thoughts. Our reactions to the thoughts are what enables them to have influence and power over us. It helps to paint a playful visual picture to better understand how these unwanted thoughts come about.

Think about you standing on a street corner watching as thoughts just lazily float by. These thoughts can be your own or ones from an outside source like a news report, magazine, gossip. You notice a thought will gravitate closer to you as you give it attention as the rest of the thoughts just float on by.

As you focus on a thought more closely, notice how it attaches to similar thoughts thus leading to the jumping from one thought to another. These can be everyday chores, bills or can be themed as a fantasy/daydream.

In our imaginary scenario you now notice a thought unexpectedly in front of you that "scares" you. We will call this fear X. X can be ill health, panic attacks or even something bizarre. The thought begins to come closer and closer because you can't help but focus on it which produces fear because you do not like what you see. This sets in the "what ifs" as you examine the thought more and notice how this only connects more worry and no matter how hard you try to push it away or focus on pleasant thoughts your mind keeps coming back to the fearful thought.

HOW TO TACKLE ANXIOUS INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS:
There has to be a change in Attitude. You have to change the way you react to intrusive thoughts thus disarming the emotional reaction to Fear X. Once the reaction has been significantly reduced the anxious intrusive thoughts will dissipate.

The trick, is to have a new reaction to them when they run through your mind instead of trying to free yourself of them. We can't control what goes through our minds but we can change how we react. This is the key difference of someone who gets caught up in fearful or anxious thinking and someone who does not.

Next time Fear X or any thought your mind can conceive comes to mind understand these thoughts are not a realistic fear, and you want them to stop interrupting your life. Do not push the thought away. THIS IS IMPORTANT:

Say to yourself: Today I am trusting that all is well and all though this thought/fear is a possibility it is a remote one and I am not going to worry about that right now.

What is most important here is not to get upset by the emotions or fears as they arise, you want to avoid any emotional reaction to the fear so try giving the fear some cartoon characteristics.

For example, imagine Porky Pig telling you "Something awful is going to happen to you today. Aren't you scared?" with all his stuttering?  Make it a totally ridiculous scene as to take away the initial emtional reactions..How can you take Porky Pig seriously, he is so funny! By doing this you are taking the thoughts authority away making it no longer a threat. When this is done go back to what you were doing before the thought entered. You are not pushing the thought away or trying to side track it you are targeting it and taking it's authority to affect you away.

This will take practice especially in the beginning but you will soon find you are not checking yourself as much during the day to see how you feel. You are changing the fearful emotion  leaving less troublesome thoughts that just float on by with the other thoughts. I strongly recommend going to the panic away program to get more in depth information on this technique.


Only WE can choose to Support One Another,
Sincerely,
Melinda Pearson

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Depersonalization And Anxiety

In the Panic Away system, Barry Mcdonagh talks about Depersonalization and Anxiety.  This is not talked about much in the world of anxiety and panic attacks but make no mistake it is certainly there.

Depersonalization is believed to be caused by an imbalance in brain chemicals but the exact reason behind it is not clear. The sensation is caused by delayed perception, while your body is under constant stress or anxiety there is a build up of stress chemicals that causes a delayed response of the transmission of information between neurotransmitter sites in your body.

When you feel you are outside yourself looking in, or feel like your losing your mind, or your having an out of body experience then you are in the effects of Depersonalization and Anxiety.

Symptoms can include:
1.) Feeling like you are watching yourself like an observer
2.) Not in control of your actions.
3.) Feel as your disconnected from your body.
4.) Out of body experiences.
5.) Feeling as if it's a dream.
6.) Feeling like everything around you is not real.

The key is to recognized that these are only feelings and not reality. The good news is you are ok and have not done any damage to your brain or body, you are just fine. Even if it shows itself at the most troublesome times. The Panic Away program is wonderful for teaching you how to face this crisis head on to learn to go with these feelings taking the fear out of the equation which shuts the anxiety down. You feel more empowered when you are able to stand strong, face the fears, and then defeat them and take fears' power away.

Psychologists normally recommend Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBH) for treatment of depersonalization or medications such as those used for anxiety and depression, mainly which are benzodiazepines such as zanax or ativan or valium. All though depresonalization has been linked to withdrawal symptoms from these same medications.

Remembering that Depersonalization and anxiety go hand in hand but can be faced and their power over you taken away. Don't let the fears sucker you into thinking you are alone and stuck with these feelings because those thoughts are not valid. This will take practice but the change in your attitude will make a big difference to you and that anxious person will soon seem like a stranger.


Only WE can choose to Support one another,
Sincerely,
Melinda Pearson

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Tips On Anxiety And Panic Attacks

I would like to share with you some tips on anxiety and panic attacks that are offered by the Panic Away program. This program as well as I believe in confronting and learning to deal with the many effects and emotions that go along with these conditions.

Please enjoy the tips and check below for a free e-book from the Panic-Away Program to give you a little more information. I am a strong believer in facing your challenges or fears head on as once you conquer them you succeed in controlling you bodies effects to your emotions and thoughts and lessen the thoughts altogether bringing you peace and control again.

4 tips on anxiety and panic attacks:

1. Diet

2. Exercise

3. Distraction

4. Elimination of anxious thoughts

The following tips are divided into separate sections and easily implemented into your daily routine. These tips are to help strengthen your resistance to anxiety. 

DIET:  Looks at how you can ward off  excessive anxiety successfully through your diet. The more balanced the diet the more the mind/body relationship feels secure and strong. What you eat today can definitely impact the level of anxiety you will feel tomorrow. the program goes more in-depth on how important and what foods will help you with a diet to reduce anxiety.

EXERCISE:  Exercise brings the body to a heighten state through exertion as like what happens when you have an anxiety attack, so your body learns to except the heightened state and doesn't see it as a threat. So many people leave this part out in their daily routines and it is an important one. Not to mention the many relaxation and health benefits exercise provides.

DISTRACTION:  This is also important for tips on anxiety and panic attacks. We all have been distracted when we are nervous in return making us feel more at ease, but how does this apply to anxiety and panic attacks? Distraction helps you keep your attention to whats going on around you instead of the anxious feelings trying to invade our thoughts.

ELIMINATION OF ANXIOUS THOUGHTS: Most people who have been sucessful in ending anxiety and panic have intentionlly or even un-intentionally taught themselves to change their thinking patterns to a positive constructive manner instead of negative spirals of negative thoughts.

Please see the link below to download a free copy of a book from the Panic-Away program that I hope you will find informative and reassuring. This program is one of the best programs I know if you choose to take the more natural controlled way of handling your anxiety. Knowledge is power and this program gives you a wonderful defense against this powerful demon.

http://www.panicaway.com/downloads/Panic_Away_Program.pdf

Only WE can choose to support one another!

Sincerely, Melinda Pearson 

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How To Cope With Anxiety

I would like to share with you a natural way in how to cope with anxiety. Mr Barry McDonagh came up with a wonderful program designed to help control anxiety and panic attacks. He began in his college years suffering the attacks and panic and like me, he believes in the natural way without medications.

His approach is alittle different than most as he steers you toward facing your sensations and attacks rather than blocking or running away from them..Once your mentally accept and know that these attacks pose no physical threat and you start demanding at the attacks, they will subside till you overcone them.

Please watch the video below that will help you understand more on how to cope with anxiety. I will have a bonus video, one of my favorites at the end of this post.

Once you normalize your sensations and let them run through you, you no longer will fear or dread the attacks..He truly has a wonderful message and well worth the little investment. I still after years get emails with little tricks and updates about handling anziety. I have a blue link to his program at the top of my blog so please take the time to go there and check the customer satisfaction ratings and the many Doctors that recommend this program. I am a believer and I pray it will help you.

As promised please see the video below as it walks you thru a panick attack. With this program I truly believe you will learn how to cope with anxiety.

Only WE can choose to support one another.

Sincerely, Melinda Pearson,

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CALL FOR ACTION!

If I had one wish it would be for LOVE to go viral...So many things from the funniest to the saddest go viral daily ...For those who suffer with anxiety, panic attacks, depression or any other mental illness I wish their stories could go viral. People would then see their pain and anguish and know just how hard living with one of these conditions can be.

In the last few months we have lost Mr. Robin Williams and just seen Mr. Wayne Brady on the Doctor's show talking about bouts of depression as well...TWO of the most funniest and entertaining people we know have dealt with their own battles and demons. To me this says YES  mental illnesses are real and it's time to take this seriuosly. It's time to take notice and start taking care of each other.

If I could open my heart I would blanket the world with love and support for anyone suffering from these illnesses...THIS IS MY PASSION! I have been down that road and I am so thankful for the right people coming at the right times to save me. I still have my own battles but I make time to see in others what they can't show.. ONE word, can make more of a difference than you know.

I share tips and techniques with you in order to help educate you on some of these conditions and symptoms in hopes that they will help you along your path. I can talk medications, natural supplements,  stress release or coping skills. I can talk real life experiences if it will help someone not feel alone or at least see a glimmer of light shine through. My SOLE  purpose is to help all those I can, whether it be tips or just saying you are not alone or I do understand.

MY CALL TO ACTION:  If you know someone suffering from a mental illness BE THERE! A kind word, a hug to say I am here for you, spend a little time with them to understand how they REALLY are. The MOST important thing to someone suffering with a mental illness is SUPPORT! No matter who or how it comes, just as long as that support is there. You will be amazed at the change you can make in someone's life.


Remember only WE can choose to support one another.
Sincerely, Melinda Pearson

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